strengthened

“You strengthen me.”

Maybe to you that statement sounds like the infamously cheesy “You complete me” line from Jerry Maguire. Maybe it sounds too Hallmarkcardish, or like a ready-to-serve TV dinner.

But to me it sounds like pure love.

When Niel said those three simple words—“You strengthen me”—I shut my eyes tight to soak in the moment.

I sure do love my husband.

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35 Responses to “strengthened”
  1. awhh….and you miss him

  2. Heidi
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    says:

    There is nothing that strengthens me than my husband touch and soft words.

    I’m like ice cream on a hot CA sidewalk melted!!!

  3. alece says:

    “my husband’s touch and soft words” — absolutely!

  4. ok seriously… that is amazing. really. i think it’s the epitome of what a “helpmate” is supposed to be.

  5. Anna says:

    oh my…. that is beautiful….

  6. mark says:

    thank God for super duper awesome spouses!!!

  7. roo says:

    :)
    That’s all I’ve got.

  8. alece says:

    mandy — i love that you used the word “epitome”. i love saying that word but it looks so wrong to me written out that i tend to shy from typing it. i’m glad you did.

  9. Michael says:

    Dang… now I will need to come up with a different line… :D

    Although I do use the following code when leaving messages via email: 1-4-3, 7-3-6

    1-4-3 – means I love you – the number of letters in each word.
    7-3-6 – means forever and always…

  10. alece says:

    michael — have you met my friend bob (love will bring us together)? he’s got a thing for numbers; you’d get along well.

    do you only do that for your wife? (do you have a wife??)

  11. jon mark says:

    sooo, since my wife is the female “anti-blogger”…this means i can steal that line???

  12. alece says:

    absolutely.

    as long as you come back and tell us how she responded…

  13. jon mark says:

    will dooo!!! if i get opportunity to do sooo…

  14. alece says:

    see that’s the thing. don’t wait for an opportunity. it doesn’t need to be a response to some big thing she does for you. if the sentiment is true, than it’s true even on a normal day with no crisis going on. hearing it then may mean even more…

  15. jon mark says:

    context…i love my wife verrrrry much…but the first time i told her that i loved her…she put her hand over my mouth…timing is very important when telling her things!!!

  16. Becca says:

    (I like seeing James’ smile again!)

    Wow. I am glad you soaked in the moment. I hope it helped solidify that truth.

  17. tam
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    says:

    i know we need to realize our significance is in the Lord. but…when those words are heard…wow. there is something that happens within us that is almost indescribable. wow. lovely!

  18. Hannah says:

    awwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwww (deep breath) awwwwwwwwwwwwwwww.. thats really sweet.
    :)

  19. Bran Muffin says:

    I feel like I miss you today. hmph.

  20. alece says:

    jon mark — wow, she slapped you, eh?! somehow you won her over i see…

    becca — me, too!

    tam — yes. you captured my heart exactly.

    BM — you do? wow. thank you… you just want to hear that “brazilian” story!

  21. Bran Muffin says:

    You read my mind!!! heehee

    Actually, seriously, that’s not a bad idea! ;-)

  22. alece says:

    oh… someday… someday…

  23. edfromct says:

    You have your man, your God, all your blogging buddies, all of “Thrive Africa”.

    Alece, you are well and truly loved. I think that is because that’s exactley how you treat everyone you meet, with love and respect.

    Now, I would also like to hear more about this ““brazilian” story you mentioned.

  24. alece says:

    oh dear cow, ed! no can do! uhhh… bran? HELP!

    thank you for everything else you wrote (definitely no thanks for your brazilian request! ha!).

  25. TheNorEaster says:

    Yeah. You’re right. It WAS pretty cheesy. But at least it goes good when you’re crackers!

  26. TheNorEaster says:

    Umm…WITH**

    “goes good WITH** crackers”

    That was a typo.

    Really.

  27. alece says:

    why do you have to get all racist on me?!?! SHEESH!

    and WHAT was cheesy? niel’s line? or jerry maguire’s line???

  28. @ngie
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    says:

    eloquent and beautiful

  29. A quick ‘Fly-by’…

    in Love we can ALL find Strength! :-)

    SO learning that myself – more with each passing night and day.

    love you Leesh! :-)

    <B

  30. alece says:

    ’tis true. love is strength.

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