she was my first

Mandy was the first met-on-the-net friend that I got to hug.

Leading up to that first worlds-colliding visit a year and a half ago, I told her I was “nervousexcited” to meet her. I was nervous mainly because I wasn’t sure she’d like “in-person” me. But I was so excited to finally spend time with my friend. And from our very first hug, the nervousness quickly faded away. I can’t help but smile just thinking back to that ridiculous weekend in Boston. Good times.

Mandy was also the first “other” to consistently comment on my blog.

She literally threw the blogosphere door wide open for me. I remember being so blown away that someone I didn’t know wanted to read what I was writing. It completely changed my purpose of blogging. What started out as a way to keep a small group of friends and family updated on my life in Africa, evolved into a divine provision of community and connectedness. I am so grateful.

I’m down in Southeast Georgia spending time with Mandy again. In between the laughter, long talks, and southern food, I keep thanking the Lord for my friend.

cookie dough

To be honest, I often forget how we met until someone asks how we know each other.

Because the truth is, we aren’t blog friends.

We’re simply friends.

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36 Responses to “she was my first”
  1. Becky says:

    That is so cool! By the way, I love the fact you are both eating cookie dough! YUM! :)

  2. I LOVE in person you!!!

    You are too far away!

  3. I love that you’re hanging out with Mandy!!! You guys must be having so much fun!!! Honestly, I think you’re both incredible, so I just can’t even imagine the two of you together! ;)

    I also love that blog friends can become something different – simply FRIENDS. Love it.

  4. I want to meet “in person” you. Next time you’re on the west coast it needs to happen!
    And I know what you mean about the “other” person to read your blog. I can’t wait to have a blogging community.

    • it absolutely needs to happen!

      and i know this sounds so cheesy, but blogging has changed my life. i’m serious. i can’t imagine this past year of my life without the friends and support system God built around me through the Grit. it’s unbelievable.

  5. Anna says:

    That’s awesome, Alece! I love cookie dough too! Can you share some with me? :)

  6. two things:
    1. i’m jealous!
    2. mandy’s face is AH-MAZ-ING!!! hahahaa… actually… evil-ish.

  7. Maybe it’s the cookie dough…but you both kind of have “crazy eyes” in that picture? ;)

    Looks like ya’ll are having a blast. Looking forward to your next trip to NashVegas so we can hang out.

    Love ya friend…no qualifier.

  8. I can’t believe you used that picture.

  9. i have no clue why–maybe i’m just a cheeseball–but reading this both made me smile and gave me chills all the way up my arms. i LOVE this. love it.

  10. Russ hutto says:

    Hey Alece! I was informed AFTER the fact that you were there in person at SSCC Sunday night. Bummer. Would have been neat to meet you! [thanks a lot Mandy for not introducing us!!]

    Hope you enjoyed your time here in South Georgia!

    • i am loving it down here! hoping for some sunshine, though. (here for a bit longer still.)

      sorry i missed out on saying “hi” in person at SSCC the other night. LOVED getting to worship with y’all!

  11. Bran Muffin says:

    I love this! (love you two too)

  12. Amy
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    says:

    so well said… “simply friends”…

    …but you know I can’t NOT say one thing… just one…

    enjoy every moment with MAN-dy… and I won’t ask for emergency contact info this time around :)

  13. I love meeting blog friends face to face.. I love how God brings them in our paths, they journey with us, following along with our heart’s renderings on our blogs, all the while affirming us. It’s like having cheerleaders on the path of life.

    I think it’s awesome that you all got to spend some time together!

    I’m still hoping you head north one day to the Starbucks in my town. I’m not that far, you know!

    Have a blast!

  14. Heidi
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    says:

    You were frickin 1 1/2 hours (hours hours hours) away from me….

    I’ll get my chance….

    NOW pass over the cookie dough!!

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