just what i needed

Yesterday felt like a long exhale. It felt like a warm blanket. And the first day of spring.

I spent over nine hours with a wonderful friend. She’s a friend I can be talkative with and also sit in comfortable silence with. And we did plenty of both. She held my hand as we shared hearts, and made me feel completely loved when she hugged me.

And the best part was: We laughed till we cried. And then we laughed some more.

the look

flaughter

If the still-shots don’t prove it, maybe this will:

As I drove home at the end of my perfect day, my mind settled on one thought: My heart feels strengthened.

cathi-and-me

It was just what I needed.

Comments

31 Responses to “just what i needed”
  1. Amy
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    says:

    I’m sooooo thankful you had this day.

  2. …i’m barely awake and still cracking up thinking about this!
    my day was so indescribable…but you came REALLY close!!!!!!
    LOVE YOU, LOVE YOU, LOVE YOU!!!!

  3. [p.s...my "sexy" face...uh...kind of gives me the willies and I think you can beat me up.]

  4. Heidi
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    says:

    I ran to my computer… I had a feeling.

    Oh this makes me laugh and cry…

    O, BTW eating will not get you far on your 5K.

    Who cares!!!!

    “Heart strengthened” Love it..

  5. Amy Ellison says:

    This made me smile. You guys are too cute.

  6. “…desire fulfilled is a tree of life.”

  7. jane says:

    nothing like a good friend to encourage one’s heart. you are blessed to have such an opportunity.
    can’t imagine the attention two such beauties got while out and about.
    may your day have a carry over of strengthening today.

  8. Alex says:

    This made me smile. You guys are too cute!
    And I loved hearing you laugh!! :-]
    Miss ya!

  9. Jennifer Griffin says:

    Yeah!!!! I’m so thankful you had such a wonderful day! I pray that today will be just as awesome! The bible says…Laughter is like good medicine. :) I know that is not a direct quote..I’m so bad.

    Hugs!

  10. Those pictures are adoreable. I’m so glad you had this day and that it was just what you needed! :)

  11. Good stuff, indeed. Something tells me I would adore her.

  12. There is a place in my heart, tucked away from the flurry of every day life, a place that is secret and quiet and still. This place has room for you and Cathi. Room for that weekend long ago. Room for laughs and quiet moments and talking and talking and more talking.

    Just knowing that the two of you were together yesterday added a beam of light to that little corner.

  13. I love that you are wearing scarves and I love that you are happy and I love that Mandy is hanging out with Tam and I love that you are both – smashing. Yay.

  14. tonggumomma says:

    And now my heart feels warm, too.

  15. Dwight says:

    “A person that has a true friend…is rich…”

  16. sarah says:

    That post made me smile! You both are beautiful! :)

  17. Brandy says:

    This was AWESOME! I loved it! I soaked in your voices. I love them.

    Love you!

  18. TheNorEaster says:

    Man, that sure looked like fun.

    Sounds like you really needed too, Alece.

    That Cathi seems to have some good timing.

  19. @ngie
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    says:

    :grins from ear to ear:

    my heart is happy for you.

  20. faithstart says:

    thats awesome alece!! I am so happy you had that time together and that you have such a great friend in her. You are both SOOO beautiful too!

  21. it was good to hear you laughing!

  22. alright…i watched the gag reel and that was fantastic! it’s good to have good friends.

  23. one question: does “independence” rhyme with “sentence”. just listen to a country song. or mandy.

    you are beautiful. and so is cathi. what a fun day. glad your heart is strengthened.

  24. Amy Joy says:

    This made my heart warm for you.

  25. roo says:

    Aaaaand, more smiles from Smiley over here.

  26. edfromct says:

    So many great smiles and laughs. You guys have soo much fun together.

    Any reason why in all the pictures, and videos, of you, Cathy, Tam and Mandy having fun together there are no husbands around?

  27. Debra says:

    What a great day … a precious gift … encouragement on your journey. He will never leave us or forsake us. Friends are sometimes angels in disguise. Isn’t it wonderful! The joy just radiates from both of your faces. Yippee!

  28. gitz says:

    Oh my heavens to Betsy… you two are too freaking cute. I went to Vimeo and watched the Commonalities video. Thought I was going to wet my pants laughing. You two being happy just makes me happy by accident. Love it.

  29. Theresa says:

    I love that I got to hear you laugh!!!!!

    YAY!!!

  30. JudiFree.com says:

    Friends are truly a gift from God. You guys look great in those pictures!

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