fixing my thoughts

God was very clear. Fix your thoughts on what is true,” He said.

But I’ve been doing the exact opposite.

I spend a lot of time thinking about things that are untrue.

My mind gets stuck on the myriad of lies I believe about myself. Like I’m not enough. And It’s always my fault when things go wrong. And I’m not lovable.

Oh, the list goes on and on.

Lately I’ve been challenged to listen more closely to my internal commentary. To pay attention to the lies that are stuck on repeat. And to replace them with truth.

It’s time to fix my thoughts.

By fixing them on what is true.

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26 Responses to “fixing my thoughts”
  1. I know I’ve said this before and I’ll say it again…..you keep writing my life experience here. Crazy! God has been dealing with me about my thought life and just yesterday I was thinking I have got to deal with this stinkin’ thinkin’. Praying for you on the journey to fixing thoughts! Not easy, but necessary.

  2. jessica says:

    well said.

    i’m on a thought overhaul as well….

  3. Michelle says:

    My mom just said the same thing to me…and now you…

    Hmmm…

  4. @ngie
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    says:

    I like you. yep.

    By the way, the picture of the dirt on your scroller is intriguing. The fashionable flip-flop girl is adorable. The bike shots are captivating. And the hut one makes me think that you are missing home, just a tad.

    Did I mention, I like you? I do. I like you.

  5. Earl says:

    yes-bo!
    i’m fixin’ too. lots, lately. love you, friend.

  6. Becca says:

    I completely, and utterly, understand.

    The replacement theory, as God tells it, is difficult. Man is it difficult.

  7. Lisa says:

    Gee, you mean I’m not the only one that does this? :-)

    2 Cor. 10:5 tells us to take every thought captive to the obedience of Christ. I wonder, could that mean that I’m actually disobeying Christ when I’m choosing to believe the opposite of what He’s said about myself? Hmmmmm…..

  8. Heidi
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    says:

    Fixing… is just a word that is hard for me.

    For ten minutes no prob, maybe even 24 hours. But as soon sumpin happens I am looking in a mirror again questioning where I stand. Have ever heard the song Mirror by Barlowgirl it so fits this post.

    Mirror”

    Mirror, Mirror on the wall, Have I got it?
    ‘Cause Mirror you’ve always told me who I am
    I’m finding it’s not easy to be perfect
    So sorry you won’t define me
    Sorry you don’t own me

    Who are you to tell me
    That I’m less than what I should be?
    Who are you? Who are you?
    I don’t need to listen
    To the list of things I should do
    I won’t try, I won’t try

    Mirror I am seeing a new reflection
    I’m looking into the eyes of He who made me
    And to Him I have beauty beyond compare
    I know He defines me

    You don’t define me, you don’t define me

    http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=dpVRgye2ihk

  9. I love that verse in Philippians! This post brought to mind the verse in Corinthians too…Take captive your thoughts and hold them in obedience to Christ. Remember this: You are fearfully and wonderfully made. You are blessed. Chosen. Adopted. You are a co-heir with Christ. You are loved. Focus on these things!

  10. Stacey
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    says:

    Heard this this weekend. Thought it might help.

    ‘Stop listening to yourself and start speaking to yourself’. I think it means stop listening to the lies you tell yourself and start speaking truth to yourself/

  11. gitz says:

    listen to me instead; i always tell the truth.

    you are more than enough. you are loved and worthy and beautiful.

    and sassier than you think.

    • “you are more than enough. you are loved and worthy and beautiful.”

      that made me burst into tears.

      i am so struggz on that today. well, always. but even more today.

      trying to hear you.

      thank you for your heart for me.

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