we’ve gotten it all wrong with the prodigal son

I shut my eyes tightly as worship started, forcefully trying to block out the thousands of others around me. I desperately needed to connect with God in a way I hadn’t allowed myself in far too long.

And as I asked Him to meet me in that place of brokenness, the Prodigal Son came to mind.

The story seemed to unfold behind my closed eyes, and a tear trickled down my face as I saw the father run out to embrace his son. God reminded me that it was Him running out to meet me.

No matter how far I’ve wandered, no matter how broken and messed up I’ve become, no matter how grimy and soiled I am, He runs out to meet me.

I saw with fresh eyes as He wrapped His robe of righteousness around me. He put His ring on my finger to remind me of the seal of His Spirit in my heart. And He didn’t just call for the fattened calf. He sent His prize Lamb—the perfect Lamb of God—to be sacrificed for me.

I think we got it all wrong in calling this the Story of the Prodigal Son.

I think it’s actually the Story of the Prodigal Father.

Prodigal means recklessly extravagant, lavishly abundant.

And that is the perfect description of the love the Father embraces His broken children with.

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36 Responses to “we’ve gotten it all wrong with the prodigal son”
  1. jessica says:

    this is one of my favorite passages in the Bible. for all the reasons you have listed. i love how the Father runs to the son with such great love and embraces him. perfect.

  2. Heidi says:

    “Prodigal means recklessly extravagant, lavishly abundant.”

    That makes me run faster towards Him

    Love you!

  3. Thoko says:

    Thanks, Alece for this reassurance. I can’t even run today, just have to stand here because with His speed He is abt to catch me b4 I fall. This timing has given me more hope that today He’s seeing to it that my case is settled. Love u lots:)

  4. Lisa says:

    I *love* that He gave you this vision, this fresh revelation of Himself to you. This makes my heart so full for you, and for Him.

    This comes to mind:
    http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Voawjjqg8zw&feature=related

  5. joy renée says:

    good stuff, friend.
    so full.

  6. @ngie says:

    Requesting permission to preach this, por favor. Good stuff!

  7. Bajanpoet says:

    I never ever thought of looking up the meaning of ‘prodigal’… my GOD…. this turns the traditional teaching on its head….

    “I think it’s actually the Story of the Prodigal Father.
    Prodigal means recklessly extravagant, lavishly abundant.
    And that is the perfect description of the love the Father embraces His broken children with.”

    Wow……

    I think I want to let this sink in….

  8. Stacey says:

    Need that perfect fatherly embrace right now.. Thanks for sharing!

  9. Jen Griffin says:

    WOW! Best post award! This was just what I needed..

  10. Jenny says:

    So beautiful! :) Can’t wait to see what February will hold… January has been so amazing for you :) Yay!

  11. Melissa says:

    I read this and then looked up Tim Keller’s Prodigal God. I haven’t read the book but I may go pick it up. The sermon notes pointed to somethings I had never saw when I read that parable before.
    http://www.theprodigalgod.com/resources.html

    Really amazing! Not just that God the Father is recklessly extravagant, lavishly abundant., but that Jesus was the elder brother we needed. He didn’t complain about being wronged when the younger brother came back but He was the One who was willing to lay down His rights to the inheritance to bring all the lost brothers back to the family.

    • alece says:

      so many people have recommended this book — i’d never heard of it before this! but it’s on my wishlist now for sure. thank you for that link, too – some great stuff there!

  12. Amber says:

    Thank you for this post. Very much needed right now.

  13. Stacey says:

    This was beautiful Lecers, Thank you!

  14. Becca says:

    I’m pretty far away from Him right now. I think I’m dodging His leaps toward me sometimes, though.

    Thank you for writing this.

  15. Your thoughts and your unique ability to put them into words them amaze me.

  16. Becky says:

    My grandmother told me last night about the book Prodigal God and it had me intrigued…
    “Prodigal means recklessly extravagant, lavishly abundant.” I never knew that! Great perspective and insight… I will be processing this all day today

  17. thegypsymama says:

    I take it you’ve read Tim Keller’s “The Prodigal God” ?

  18. weezer says:

    Alece….. you are such a gifted writer. Don’t ever forget what the Lord has brought you through, and continues to bring you closer to him. Follow your heart, trust him and he will direct your path. You must quit taking your life back, and move forward. The Lord has carried you for a long time, and he will continue to, but you must want to take the steps on your own, and let him guide you. He will never leave you or forsake you. He is able to do all things through Christ who strengthens you. Are you ready to take a step out of the past and into the future? A new beginning is waiting for you….. I love you my sweet girl. weezer

  19. Julie Todd says:

    So very, very true… It’s not just a story about a son who considered his father as good as dead, asked for his inheritance and left to squander it all…. or about a son who was busy working in the fields to gain entrance into the father’s house… It’s about a Father who loved extravagantly…

    The prodigal knew he could always return home, though he couldn’t see fully the heart of his father. The older brother didn’t realize that his father’s heart would say… “all I have has always been yours” Yet it did.

    I love the story of the prodigal son. I’ve written about it a couple of times on my blog.
    Here’s one: http://jewelsightings.blogspot.com/2009/07/all-he-has-is-yours.html

    Love what you wrote here… so beautiful!

  20. coop says:

    you are so blessed with such great wisdom. this reminds me of tim keller’s book (which i have only heard preached on) but with a ton of (legal and good kind of) steroids.

    it’s hard when the earthly father and the heavenly father don’t match up. in fact they contradict one another. but i’m grateful for the love of the heavenly father even though it’s hard to see that played out down here by my earthly parentals. I want to know God’s prodigal love and embrace.

  21. Tre says:

    It is hard for me to wrap my mind around God wrapping his arms around me like that. I don’t have a problem picturing myself hugging tight like that picture. I love hugging. I love, loving. I have a hard time being loved.

    That is a hard hug for me to embrace. (BW). one day. i am walking towards trusting very slowly.

  22. gitz says:

    Wow. I had to sit for a moment just to soak that in… and I’m loving this lesson so much more than the one I’ve read for years. I always learn something looking through your eyes, girl.

  23. Adriane says:

    I just started reading The Prodigal God
    my mentor just finished it and has raved about it non-stop

    it’s a pretty incredible concept
    one that is hard to grasp for some reason
    but His love for me is more than I can even understand
    or hope to comprehend

    I can just dive in and never fear reaching the end

  24. annie says:

    Wow. That is good.

  25. Jamie says:

    I haven’t read the other posts, so this may be a repeat. Have you read the Prodigal God? by Tim Keller. Sorry if every other comment has recommended this :)

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