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	<title>Comments on: my first break-up</title>
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		<title>By: Kenny E.</title>
		<link>http://www.gritandglory.com/2009/10/20/my-first-break-up/#comment-32479</link>
		<dc:creator>Kenny E.</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 18 Aug 2010 04:55:19 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Your heartache is not in vain. May God continue to heal your heart and life!

http://kennyelliott.posterous.com/men-contemplating-cheating-on-your-wife#</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Your heartache is not in vain. May God continue to heal your heart and life!</p>
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		<title>By: c</title>
		<link>http://www.gritandglory.com/2009/10/20/my-first-break-up/#comment-31991</link>
		<dc:creator>c</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 31 Jul 2010 16:03:33 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>dear alece
i came on to your website through jennyclayville&#039;s. i the christian wife cheated on my nonchristian husband and while it was for a short period and only emotionally, my husband is having a hard time forgiving. i have been trying very hard the last fe wmonths to fight for this marriage. (we are now separated, his decision.) i understand your hurt and pain, as i saw and lived it through my husband. and yet, through this all, you still remain faithful to God and cling on to His promises. the way you have reacted to this devastating event of your life has been a real inspiration to me. i am struggling to trust that God will bring us through this, because i still fall back on reproaching myself so often. but i know i have to let Him work because there isn&#039;t anything i can do about my husband&#039;s choices. i can only choose how i react to them. like you did with your situation. 
i said a prayer for you, that God continues to bring healing to your heart, and gives you the strength and energy to do the good work in His ministry. 
thanks, alece!!

c</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>dear alece<br />
i came on to your website through jennyclayville&#8217;s. i the christian wife cheated on my nonchristian husband and while it was for a short period and only emotionally, my husband is having a hard time forgiving. i have been trying very hard the last fe wmonths to fight for this marriage. (we are now separated, his decision.) i understand your hurt and pain, as i saw and lived it through my husband. and yet, through this all, you still remain faithful to God and cling on to His promises. the way you have reacted to this devastating event of your life has been a real inspiration to me. i am struggling to trust that God will bring us through this, because i still fall back on reproaching myself so often. but i know i have to let Him work because there isn&#8217;t anything i can do about my husband&#8217;s choices. i can only choose how i react to them. like you did with your situation.<br />
i said a prayer for you, that God continues to bring healing to your heart, and gives you the strength and energy to do the good work in His ministry.<br />
thanks, alece!!</p>
<p>c</p>
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		<title>By: alece</title>
		<link>http://www.gritandglory.com/2009/10/20/my-first-break-up/#comment-25736</link>
		<dc:creator>alece</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 03 Feb 2010 18:56:56 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>that last one gets me every time i hear it.

thank you, anne.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>that last one gets me every time i hear it.</p>
<p>thank you, anne.</p>
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		<title>By: Anne</title>
		<link>http://www.gritandglory.com/2009/10/20/my-first-break-up/#comment-25360</link>
		<dc:creator>Anne</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 09 Jan 2010 17:52:05 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>&quot;We must be willing to let go of the life we&#039;ve planned to have the life that is waiting for us&quot; EM Forster

&quot;If one advances confidently in the direction of his dreams, and endeavors to live the life which he has imagined, he will meet with success unexpected in common hours.&quot; 
Henry David Thoreau 

&quot;It is doubtful whether God can bless a man greatly until He has hurt him deeply.&quot; 
A.W. Tozer

Three great quotes I hold on to. I hope these comfort you like they comfort me.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>&#8220;We must be willing to let go of the life we&#8217;ve planned to have the life that is waiting for us&#8221; EM Forster</p>
<p>&#8220;If one advances confidently in the direction of his dreams, and endeavors to live the life which he has imagined, he will meet with success unexpected in common hours.&#8221;<br />
Henry David Thoreau </p>
<p>&#8220;It is doubtful whether God can bless a man greatly until He has hurt him deeply.&#8221;<br />
A.W. Tozer</p>
<p>Three great quotes I hold on to. I hope these comfort you like they comfort me.</p>
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		<title>By: TheNorEaster</title>
		<link>http://www.gritandglory.com/2009/10/20/my-first-break-up/#comment-23720</link>
		<dc:creator>TheNorEaster</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 09 Nov 2009 10:32:56 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>&quot;My first break-up won’t be my last chapter.&quot;

Keep writing.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>&#8220;My first break-up won’t be my last chapter.&#8221;</p>
<p>Keep writing.</p>
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		<title>By: Debbie</title>
		<link>http://www.gritandglory.com/2009/10/20/my-first-break-up/#comment-23327</link>
		<dc:creator>Debbie</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 30 Oct 2009 17:58:15 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>oh so sweet is His redemption.  (coming over from Giving up on Perfect)...  may you always feel His presence, and when you can&#039;t, may the knowledge drown out any feeling you have.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>oh so sweet is His redemption.  (coming over from Giving up on Perfect)&#8230;  may you always feel His presence, and when you can&#8217;t, may the knowledge drown out any feeling you have.</p>
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		<title>By: Jill</title>
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		<dc:creator>Jill</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 29 Oct 2009 18:08:05 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>&quot;Those who look to Him are radiant; their faces are never covered with shame.&quot;  (Psalm 34:5)

God bless you as you continue to look to Him.  May you feel His arms carrying you day by day.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>&#8220;Those who look to Him are radiant; their faces are never covered with shame.&#8221;  (Psalm 34:5)</p>
<p>God bless you as you continue to look to Him.  May you feel His arms carrying you day by day.</p>
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		<title>By: blanche jacobson</title>
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		<dc:creator>blanche jacobson</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 29 Oct 2009 17:27:49 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>The pain isn’t as deep as it once was, the tears don’t come as often as they did, and hope isn’t as elusive as it used to be.


^^
I completely understand.
Those are my thoughts written/</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>The pain isn’t as deep as it once was, the tears don’t come as often as they did, and hope isn’t as elusive as it used to be.</p>
<p>^^<br />
I completely understand.<br />
Those are my thoughts written/</p>
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		<title>By: i wish it was just about the sex : Grit and Glory</title>
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		<dc:creator>i wish it was just about the sex : Grit and Glory</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 29 Oct 2009 04:11:17 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>[...] nothing&#8221;. Sheer, unadulterated (!) lust would&#8217;ve been easier on my heart. But my story didn&#8217;t come from a Hollywood [...]</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>[...] nothing&#8221;. Sheer, unadulterated (!) lust would&#8217;ve been easier on my heart. But my story didn&#8217;t come from a Hollywood [...]</p>
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		<title>By: Toby</title>
		<link>http://www.gritandglory.com/2009/10/20/my-first-break-up/#comment-23089</link>
		<dc:creator>Toby</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 24 Oct 2009 20:15:41 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I just wanted to say I can relate and I&#039;ll be praying for you.  Thank you for sharing your life with us!</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I just wanted to say I can relate and I&#8217;ll be praying for you.  Thank you for sharing your life with us!</p>
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